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Class of 1968 - In Memoriam

In memory of those classmates who are reported to be no longer with us.

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Name Date How Remembrances
Gary Barber 10/30/02 cancer Lake County Record-Bee, Lakeport, California, Nov. 2, 2002
Gary Lee Barber
Gary Lee Barber, 52, of Kelseyville, passed away on Oct. 30, 2002 at Sutter Lakeside Community Hospital after a long battle with cancer. He was admitted Monday evening with pneumonia, and left us Wednesday morning. He died in the same way he lived his life -- privately and with dignity.
Gary was preceded in death by his son, Adam Barber, and his father, Rodell Barber.
He is survived by his wife Terry Barber; mother and step-father Dorothy and Clarence Conklin of Lakeport; brother Kenneth Barber of Wetumpka, Ala.; sister Linda Barber of Kelseyville; sons Troy Barber of Sacramento, Eric Barber of Clarksville, Tenn., Chris Jarose of Lakeport and David Jarose of Kelseyville; grandsons Mitchell Barber, Jacob Barber, Zachary Barber; nephew Matthew Barber; and parents-in-law Michael and Lorna Kekesako of Hawaii.
Gary moved to Lake County in 1980 after his decision to leave the Air Force (1969-1980). Gary was a Vietnam Veteran and had worked as a jet mechanic in Da Nang (1971-1972). When asked to do another overseas tour and leave his family, his decision was to leave the Air Force and move to Lake County (Lucerne) and start a new life for his family.
Gary quickly got involved with the community. He was the Little League baseball coach (1981-1984); Top Coach of the year (1981); Boy Scouts of America-Scout Master (1981-1985); and he has regaled us time and again with funny stories from that time period. One of his greatest loves was being with the Lucerne Volunteer Fire Department, and he was Volunteer Fireman of the Year (1982). He also helped organize the first Lucerne Alpine Festival (1983) and was active in the Upper Lake High School Boosters (1986-1990).
In 1983, Gary's new career got a start when May Noble offered to send him to Real Estate School. What a change that was for him. True to his style, he jumped in and became involved in all aspects. He became a broker in 1987 and worked for Noble Realty until 1996. He served on the Board of Directors for several years and was past-president of the Clear Lake Board of Realtors, and was an instrumental force in the merger of the Clear Lake Board of Realtors with the North Bay Board of Realtors. Gary was also a member of the National Association of Realtors for which he attained the CRB designation, and the California Association of Realtors (CAR) of which he was a Director and served as Region IV Chairperson in 2001. He was also appointed by CAR as chair of a 2-year statewide task force committee on Mobile and Manufactured Homes.
Gary married Terry Oct. 12, 1991 and began a new life on the Kelseyville side of the Lake. Of course, he brought his sense of humor, style, and commitment to community with him. This was reflected in his ongoing involvement with the Lakeport Chamber of Commerce of which he was a member of the Board of Directors, and involved in many local projects like "Pedal Around the Puddle." In 1996, he went into business for himself and purchased the Clear Lake Realty, which later changed its name to California Prudential Realty. In 1989, he also started teaching Real Estate Principles at Mendocino College, and he joined what was to be his favorite organization, the Lakeport Rotary.
During his time with the Lakeport Rotary, Gary managed, like always, to become president (1997-1998), but he truly loved this organization and managed to be involved in almost everything they did. His love for Rotary was returned to him 10-fold when he offered his resignation based on his failing health. The members unanimously voted not to accept his resignation and to make him an Honorian Rotarian (lifetime member). He was so proud and so very touched.
Gary was known to all for his sense of humor and integrity. He is starting out on his "next big adventure" as he mentioned before he passed on. He will be greatly missed by all of us left behind. He was truly loved by all who knew him.
Memorial donations may be made in Gary's name to the Lakeport Rotary, PO Box 937, Lakeport, CA 95453 or Lake County/North Bay Board of Realtors for the Gary Barber Memorial Scholarship Fund for Kelseyville High School, PO Box 3130, Clearlake, CA 95422.
Skip Benoit 4/5/09    
Roseann  Carson Wagoner 7/25/04 cancer WAGONER, Roseann Carson
Dec 28, 1949 - July 25, 2004
Roseann Wagoner completed her life on July 25 in San Diego, with her family at her side. Born and raised in Sacramento, California, she attended Encina High School where she met her husband Don, and graduated from California State University, Sacramento.
A visionary with a passion for children, Rose was one of the first writers of legislation for treatment foster care; founder and past CEO of Walden Family Services; and past president of the California Association of Children's Homes. She also lobbied for children's welfare issues in Sacramento and Washington, D.C.
Described by her daughter as, "A role model for everything you would want to be," Rose opened her heart and home to many - her brother's daughters, whom she raised for 10 years, friends, nieces and nephews, anyone in need of a seat at the dinner table, and countless animals, be they cats, dogs, birds, ducks, or the occasional skunk. She had big brown eyes, loved Mai Tais and dancing, and made great tacos.
Rose fought a life-long battle with thyroid and brain cancer, and approached the disease with ferocity and grace. She used her strength to counsel others - strangers waiting for chemotherapy, fellow church-goers, and anyone referred by friends or acquaintances. Even in her final months, when the tumor returned, she said, "Bring it on."
Her faith and love of Jesus sustained her in her darkest hours, and gave her that extra spark in her brightest ones.
Rose is survived by her husband Don; son Eric; daughter Emily Ketchum; mother Bess Nicholas; sister Bonnie Forness and brother-in-law Jack; brother Frank Carson; nieces Stephanie Carson and Bonnie Carson Gregg; and countless friends and extended family.
Rose's life will be celebrated Saturday, July 31 at the East Valley Christian Fellowship, 14069 Ridge Hill Road, El Cajon, CA 92021, 619-390-2734. The family asks anyone wishing to contribute to send donations to the UCSD Cancer Center Foundation.
Published in the Sacramento Bee on 7/29/2004.
Sue Cooper      
Leslie Darby 4/5/09   DARBY, Leslie
Of Citrus Heights, Calif., on April 5, 2009. Born on September 6, 1950, in Roswell, N.M., to Jack and Jinny Darby. Survived by her mother, children, grandchildren, and many brothers and sisters. Memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 11, at 2:00 p.m. at Sierra 2 Community Center, 2791 24th St., Sacramento, Calif.
Steve Drake May 1980 drowned Steve's sister Beth writes:  After high school, Steve continued to be a motorcycle mechanic and ended up living inFort Collins, Colorado.   He never married and had no children.  In May, 1980, Steve and a friend both drowned while rafting near Gunnison, Colorado on a camping trip.  Steve loved motorcycles, rafting, rock collecting and climbing, caving, camping, frisbee, ping-pong, cats and other things that I can't mention here.  He was a generous friend and a great brother with a wicked sense of humor.  although he was not quite 30 when he left us, he died doing what he loved.  He is buried at Mount Vernon in Fair Oaks with his brother Ron, Class of '67, who died 6 months after him.

Beth Bennett  beth_b11@hotmail.com  

Cheryl Gillette 7-25-08   GILLETTE, Cheryl "Sherry"
Born 10/17/1950, died 7/25/2008. Survived by sister, Kathleen Cicairos (Gilbert), brother Jack Gillette, Uncle Robert Chapin, Aunt Barbara White and numerous cousins. Cheryl was retired from the Employment Development Department. Per her request, there will be no services.
Published in the Sacramento Bee on 7/26/2008
Gerald Givens 11-14-97 heart attack
Richard "Dick" Greene 12-23-00 heart attack Sacramento Bee, December 30, 2000
RICHARD GREENE
   On December 23, 2000 from a heart attack. Aged 50, he was a Sacramento native, graduating from St. Philomene's School, Encina High School, and California State University at Sacramento. He worked as a race car driver, public relations representative in Europe, operating engineer on the Trans-Alaska Pipeline, and as the owner and principal of JRG Group, a mortagage banking firm. He is survived by his daughter Rebecca, 12, his mother Theda Zoe, step-father Henry Hendrix, and brother Tom. Richard was a lover of jazz and classic movies, an enthusiast for English cars, including his vintage Lotus and Mini-Cooper, a supporter of local equestrian envents, a fun-loving companion, a strong advocate for his clients, a generous friend, and a loving father.
Mike Hall                                                                           
John Hart 1993 or 1994 Cancer Valley Times, August 14, 1992
JOHN C. HART - Pleasanton - Aug. 27, 1950-Aug. 12, 1992
   John C. Hart of Pleasanton died at his home on Wednesday. He was 41. A native of Fresno, he was a Pleasanton resident for 2-1/2 years. He was a computer-aided designer and drafter for Stone and Webster Engineers at
Lawrence Livermore Laboratory. He had worked with Maxima Corp. in San Diego. He also had worked as a dispatcher for the Lodi Police Department and worked for the Santa Fe Railroad. He is a member of the National Star Register, having a star named for him.
   Survivors include his wife, Carlene Hart of Pleasanton; parents, Delbert and Marie Hart of Sacramento; stepdaughter, Sarah Otten and Laura Otten, both of Kalamazoo, Mich., and two brothers, Delbert Hart of San Diego and Edward Hart of Sacramento.
   Contributions: Hope Hospice, 6500 Dublin Blvd., Dublin, 94568, or the American Cancer Society, 7000 Village Parkway, Suite, L, Dublin, CA 94568.
Randy Hunt   Illness  
Richard Kopp      
Greg McClernon      
Tim Neshem 1-27-94 Heart Attack Tim Neshem was a Senior during my Freshman year at Encina.  We were both in the school band, under Director John Knurr.  Tim played baritone saxophone.   I can still hear Tim's low bass line in the tune "Jazz Me Blues."   Tim was a very, very nice man and treated everyone, including underclassmen (and women) with repect.  I will always remember his happy friendly demeanor.  I am saddened by his passing.  Mike Pittsley, Encina Class of 1971
Peter Proserpi 1980 Cancer

PETER PROSERPI

26 September, 1949 – 8 August, 1980

Ich hatt’ einen Kameraden, einen besser’n findst du nit
(I had a comrade, a better one you could not find)

German song in honor of comrades lost in war

It is truly a privilege and an honor to meet someone whose joy for life, idealism, integrity, loyalty and love are qualities so strong that they brighten the lives and spirits of all with whom they come in contact.  Such a person was Peter Proserpi. 

Pete was born in Switzerland on the 26th of September 1949 and moved to Sacramento with his parents, Erika and Walter Proserpi when he was 11 months old.   In Sacramento he attended Encina High School, where he was involved with a variety of activities, including Varsity track, Varsity Cross-Country, Student Council, German Club, and Le Cercle Francais. Pete also worked out in boxing camp with Pete Ranzany and took part in the Golden Gloves Boxing Championship one year. 

One of his classmates from Encina High captured the essence of Pete’s spirit when he wrote “…I have recollections of him as a very kind and unassuming individual whom I took an instant liking to.  He seemed to move between classes with ease…never locking into one group, but possessing a grace and a charm that allowed him to move among all classes, cared for by all to whom he came in contact.”  Another classmate, after reading my memorial-in-progress to Pete wrote “…I don’t know you but just wanted to tell you that what you wrote about Pete Proserpi was beautiful and right on…Thank you for this lovely thought.  He so deserved it.”

I had the good fortune to meet Pete when he went through  Military Police Training at Fort Gordon, Georgia in 1970, after which he went through Correctional Specialist Training with the US Army Military Police School at Fort Gordon.  After training, he spent a few months with the 30th Military Police Battalion at the Presidio of San Francisco, where I  visited him on my way to Korea.   He volunteered for duty in Vietnam and was reassigned to Company C, 720th Military Police Battalion.  I’m trying to get more information about his time in Vietnam, but do have his records which reflect that per Permanent Orders 65-2 dated 6 October 1976, Pete was awarded the Bronze Star Medal for period of service 17 April 1971.  His citation reads

SPECIALIST FOUR PETER PROSERPI, UNITED STATES ARMY

Meritorious achievement while driving the lead escort vehicle, a V-100 armored car, for a resupply convoy to a firebase at Katum along a narrow dirt road on 17 April 1971.  The road was declared cleared by ARVN troops responsible for conducting a mine detector sweep.  The convoy was barely underway when a truck behind Specialist Proserpi’s vehicle hit a land mine injuring two soldiers.  Specialist Proserpi assisted in their MEDEVAC after which the convoy continued with Specialist Proserpi visually searching for signs of land mines as he drove.  He located seven additional mines, which he marked to enable the rest of the convoy to pass safely.  After closing into Katum, Specialist Proserpi, with several other men, drove back down the road to the marked mines and destroyed them with explosives.  His outstanding meritorious achievement was instrumental in preventing additional casualties, destruction of Army vehicles, and accomplishment of the mission and reflect great credit upon him and the United States Army.

 

Pete’s tour of duty in Vietnam was from 8 March 1971 through 27 January 1972.  He was promoted to Sergeant and outprocessed at Fort George Meade, Maryland, near to where his wife lived. 

 

The medals which he was awarded are reflected in his military records:  Bronze Star Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal with 3 Bronze Stars, Republic of Vietnam Campaign Ribbon with 1960 device, Expert Badge with Auto Rifle, Pistol and Rifle bars, and the Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross Unit Citation with Palm.

 

After leaving active duty, Pete and his wife, Teresa, moved to Geneva, Switzerland, where he trained as a pastry chef.  I considered myself blessed when he and his wife visited me in Heidelberg where I was stationed.  Pete and his wife eventually returned and settled in at South Lake Tahoe, California, and Pete joined the 126th Medical Transportation Company, California National Guard at Mather AFB in California and worked as a pastry chef in South Lake Tahoe.

I have been able to fill out the tragic details of the last years of Pete’s life from articles in both the Los Angeles Times and the Sacramento Bee.  It is a typical Agent Orange story, where Pete, while on duty with the National Guard, hit his leg with a car door while picking up his Executive Officer.  Severe pain ensued, but during the six months of care at a military hospital, all he was told was that he suffered from a chipped bone and muscle inflammation.  After six months of no improvement, Pete went to Stanford University Medical Center where they found a 4.5 lb cancerous tumor. The doctors were able to remove the tumor, but also had to amputate his leg.    He bore that setback with his characteristic bravery. Pete received very little support from the administration, and at one point, in his wheelchair, chained himself to a flagpole in Sacramento to protest the indifference of the military and the administration.  In speaking recently to an official of the California National Guard, I was told that probably as a result of Pete’s protests,  the laws have been changed and Guardsmen and reservists are treated much better now. The cancer spread to his liver and his lungs and Pete passed away on August 8th, 1980. The cancer claimed his life, but could never claim his spirit.

Another of his classmates has written me “…Pete was a great guy and a comedian as well.  He had a knack for making people laugh.  He was a friend to all.  I joined the Navy in 1975. When I was discharged in 1979 and came back home to Sacramento, there was Pete on the evening news protesting Agent Orange.  Though I never did get to see him before he passed away I have always considered myself very lucky to have known him.  I do believe there are a great many ex-military who served in Vietnam who owe their health today to the efforts initiated by Pete so long ago.”

Pete was survived by his loving family, his wife Teresa, his daughter Angelisa, and his sons Sonio (who was 16 months old) and Mario (who was 3 months old). 

Like Corporal Pat Tillman, Pete was motivated by his love of family, friends, and country.  He had a desire and commitment to make the world a better place.  Pete was an inspiration to all who knew him. Even as the years have passed and we have been blessed by others who have touched our hearts, Pete’s spirit endures. Although sorely missed, Pete’s spirit lives on in our hearts and his strength and courage continues to inspire us.

Wilfred Gibson, a poet who survived the First World War, wrote: 

          We who are left, how shall we look again

          Happily on the sun or feel the rain

          Without remembering how they who went

          Ungrudgingly and spent

          Their lives for us loved, too, the sun and rain?

          A bird among the rain-wet lilac sings –
          But we, how shall we turn to little things
          And listen to the birds and winds and streams
          Made holy by their dreams,

          Nor feel the heart-break in the heart of things?

Please let me know if you have any stories or photos you would like to share about Pete.  Thank you.

 

Wolf Beatty
wolf.fritsche@drakealumni.net

Here is a link to the Personal biography for SGT Peter Proserpi on the 720th Military Police Battalion Reunion Association Vietnam History Project
www.720mpreunion.org/history/biography_1966_1972/proserpi_peter/proserpi_peter.html

Beth Raley     Although I did not know Beth well, I do have one vivid memory of her.   I remember Beth as being a very outgoing person, although I feel certain she had an introspective side as well that perhaps was not shown very often.  She was one of the kids who caught the bus at Sierra Oaks School, and first thing in the morning when some of us were barely awake, she would be energized and keeping her friends amused with lively talk.  She and I and a few of the other girls were major, heavy-duty Beatle fans--I think this was around '64 or '65--and one morning at the bus stop she did a really amazing imitation of a person speaking with Liverpulian accent.  That's my most vivid memory of Beth, and I'm sorry that I didn't get to know her better.  Chris Matteson Page, Class of 1968
Cynthia Smeeden     Anchorage Daily News, February 3, 2002
Cynthia "Thea" Smeeden, 51
      Anchorage resident Cynthia "Thea" Smeeden, 51, died Jan. 26, 2002, at home. A celebration of life will be at 2 PM Feb. 10 at VFW 1685, 1200 W. 33rd Ave.
     Mrs. Smeeden was born March 28, 1950, in Malta. She later moved to Sacramento, Calif., where she graduated from Loretta High School and later earned a degree in cosmetology.  Mrs. Smeeden moved to Anchorage in 1983 and was raised a Catholic.
     Some of her hobbies included styling hair, collecting angels, and, most of all, going thrift store shopping.
     Her family said: "She was a unique and fun-loving friend to everyone that she met. She will be missed by all who knew her."
     She is survived by her son Sean Smeeden of Anchorage; mother Joy Ellen-Rittler of Sacramento; sister Sydney Brown and her husband Richard of Anchorage; brother Philip Smeeden and his wife Ellen of Wasilla; dear friend Douglas McCormack of Anchorage; and many nieces and nephews.
     In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to the homeless shelters of the donor's choice. Arrangements were by
Anchorage Funeral Home.
1/15/03
Penny Smith   Cancer Daily Inter Lake News, Kalispell, Montana, Nov. 24, 1993
PENNY C. FREY, 43
Penny C. Frey, 43, of Kalispell, died at her home on Tuesday morning November 23, 1993, after a two-year battle with breast cancer. She was a devoted mother and grandmother and will be dearly missed. She touched lives of many people by her deep love for our Lord Jesus Christ. Penny will always be remembered for her sweet spirit. She is survived by a daughter, Kristen Heck of Kalispell; a son, Michael Steven Crenshaw of Ashland, Oregon; a sister Janie Gallagher of Sacramento, Calif.; and two grandchildren, Tessa Nicole Heck and Talia Page Heck, both of Kalispell. Funeral services and burial will be held in Sacramento. The family suggests memorials may be made to the Community Alliance Church Library, 348 Second Avenue West, Kalispell.
12/4/00
Richard Stuck 10/12/02 illness Herald and News, Klamath Falls, Oregon, Oct. 17, 2002
Richard Ray Stuck
Richard Ray Stuck, 52, died Saturday, Oct. 12, 2002, at his residence in Klamath Falls of a lengthy illness. A graveside memorial service will be Saturday at East Lawn Cemetery in Sacramento, CA. Private services were Monday at O'Hair and Riggs Funeral Chapel. O'Hair and Riggs Funeral Chapel is in charge of the arrangements.
Mr. Stuck was born Oct. 20, 1950, to Lester Eugene Stuck and Verlyn (Hart) Stuck. He served in the Army in Vietnam. Following his discharge, he moved to Sacramento, where he worked in marketing, selling for automobile dealerships, marine shops, and spa dealers. He moved to Klamath Falls in 1990 as a self-employed marketer.
Mr. Stuck enjoyed working in his yard, thrift shopping, playing cribbage, and reading. He also liked boating and trips to Lake Tahoe and Reno. He had a good sense of humor. And he was a dedicated care giver to a disabled young man, Kirk Coleman.
Mr. Stuck is survived by his companion of 13 years, Geraldine "Gerry" Coleman of Klamath Falls; daughter and son-in-law Jennifer and Tom Simkins of Sacramento; daughter Erica Stuck of Sacramento; grandchildren Spencer Simkins, Tyler Simkins, Jacob Simkins, and Raylyn Stuck, all of Sacramento; brother and sister-in-law Lester B. and Pattie Stuck of Lake Tahoe, CA; father Lester Stuck of Carson City; sisters Suzanne Stuck of Lake Tahoe, CA, Dianne Ahlem of Hilmar, CA, Roberta Marquis of Carson City; and numerous nieces and nephews.
He also was survived by "adopted" relatives: son Kirk Coleman of Klamath Falls; son and daughter-in-law Chad and Melody Coleman of Carson City; grandchildren Alexis Dressell of Coos Bay and Katie Coleman and Tailor Coleman of Carson City.
He was preceded in death by his mother Verlyn Stuck.
Memorial contributions may be made to the charity of the donor's choice.
Kris Teakle 11/10/00 unknown In Boise,ID
Steve Whalen      
Richard Wilcox 9/15/06 illness WILCOX, Richard
Sacramento lost a fun entertainer when Rich Wilcox died September 15, 2006, at his home after a long illness. Rich was born January 18, 1950, in San Francisco but grew up and lived his life in Sacramento. A garage mechanic as a young man, he earned the name "Greaseface" from his friends. The moniker followed him through 20 years of playing keyboard and singing with the rockin' Jay Rolerz band. Most recently he entertained crowds as K.J. at the Long Shot. Rich was a devoted fan of the Los Angeles Dodgers, proudly waving his team colors even in S.F. Giants' territory. He loved the outdoors and loved to say that he "could not catch fish anywhere." He retired after selling 49er Concrete Pumping, a company he built and operated for 17 years. Rich was predeceased by his parents, Merle and Dorothy Wilcox.He is survived by his wife, Suzie; three children, Lori Wilcox (fiance Stephen Cox) of San Diego, Michael Wilcox (Lisa) of Sloughhouse, and Brittany Wilcox of Sacramento, and stepson Joe Cooper (Lisa) of Orangevale; his brother, Gary Wilcox (Donna) of Lake Arrowhead; and four grandchildren, Frank Bizeau and Ciara, Elijah, and Joely Cooper. He also is survived by a niece, nephew, and cousins.Services will be private.
Published in the Sacramento Bee from 9/21/2006 - 9/23/2006.

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